How to reach the desired result in existing disagreements?
According to Mr. William Glasser’s theory, “need” and “behavior” are on the two ends of the scale; Whenever behavior and desire (need) are aligned and reinforcing, the bottom of the scale will be equal; Therefore, it is necessary to adopt a behavior that brings you closer to your desire and goal; Not the other way around.
For example, if you want the study environment to be calm, you should adopt a behavior that will lead you to your desire. In this case, fighting and aggression creates a negative atmosphere that makes it harder to achieve the goal.
Need → goal → behavior